People might take this wrong, but it is not that I've never encountered any tragic events or sad moments in my life. In fact, I'm sure that I've gone through many harsh obstacles than a number of the ordinary people. Those worries used to bug me all the time. However, once you come face to face with a problem that's so bad and notice that you can't really do anything about it, there's a shift in the way of thinking. You come to realize that worrying too much will never yield any positive consequences. If you change the stand point of how to look at matters, life becomes so much easier and happier.
I've learned quite a lot from my personal experiences, and each one of the adversities made me stronger. And I hold that belief whenever I encounter a worrisome matter. Each one of the difficulty that I face makes me both mentally and physically stronger, and is rather a "chance" to reach over to a better me. Therefore, it is better to try to appreciate getting that chance. Thinking in this way is surely hard but once you get the point, it'll make you more optimistic.
I don't want to be swaggy or anything but I really love the term, "YOLO". Though the way of usage is sometimes used inappropriately these days, the idea that stems from is really a thing that all of the people should keep in mind about.
You Only Live Once. Do what you love, and do what will make you happy and satisfied.
Megumi,
ReplyDeleteI truly admire your bright and optimistic personality. You're always smiley and make people laugh and just so positive about life. But to think that you have gone through many hardships, makes me admire you even more for how strong you really are. Whenever I am going through tough times, I hide it from people but I'm not necessarily okay or strong enough to cope with them, I just don't want people to worry about me haha so I really admire your optimism and the way you see conflict and life as a whole:)